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    November 03

    你真的可以很自在(zz)

    米兰昆德拉有一本书叫《生活在他方》
    我对这五个字有很好的联想
    我们的生活总是在远方,都在想:
    如果明天我有钱,我就可以......
    但是如果你现在赚少钱不快乐
    就算你有再多的钱,我保证你也不会快乐;
    如果你一个人的时候不会自得其乐
    即使嫁了人,娶了老婆,别人跟你一起也会不快乐;
    如果现在不懂得享生活,未来也不会享受生活。


    有人问什么叫做自由,所谓的自由就是:
    你想要拒绝一个人的约会,已经不需要任何理由,
    你有权力过自己要过的生活,有权力去自己要去的地方。
    其实生活很简单。


    男人跟女人都很喜欢在自己的人生设一个deadline,
    比如说:
    我25岁一定要结婚,26岁一定生孩子,
    30岁时一定要一男一女,31岁的时!候一定要有房子,
    所以很多决定就很草率。
    如果刚开始你找的那个人就不对,往后再怎么努力都不对;
    有时候,我们常常会觉得婚结了,所有问题就没了,
    那如果结了婚还有问题,就赶快把小孩生一生,
    其实你的问题在这个阶段没解决,在下个阶段只会变大;
    老实说挫折感会很深。

    你对未来不用期待太多,期待太多......

    不如看看你现在做什么事情
    会让你觉得很自在,吸收到很多的东西,
    那个时候你才会觉得人生真的很充实。


    另外,一个人如果太努力在活给别人看,
    就会痛苦得不得了,
    今天如果你相信自己做得还不错,
    不在乎别人怎么看你的时候,
    你真的可以很自在。

    I love these characters. They do tell out my mind. So zz from Robert.

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    志强 何wrote:
    嘻嘻,还以为是老乡你写的呢。郑重声明下:我前面的评论依旧有效哈
    Nov. 6
    志强 何wrote:
    l老乡,你真的很有内涵啊~~你真的有当思想家的潜质,我也转了
    Nov. 6
    不像你平时的风格,但是写得很深刻!!!
    Nov. 5
    Rachel Haowrote:
    赞!我转了:)
    Nov. 4
    流氓wrote:
    Fully agree !
    Nov. 3

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